01973cam a2200337 a 4500 581 581 10751255 OCoLC 20180820174742.0 840426s1984 cau 000 0 eng 84047736 0060674083 9780060674083 (OCoLC)10751255 DLC eng DLC BAKER BTCTA CBC YDXCP XBE WY@ IDJ OCLCF CFT MZN BJ1476 .S64 1984 234.5 S637F BJ1476 .S64 1984 Smedes, Lewis B Forgive and forget : healing the hurts we don't deserve / Lewis B. Smedes 1st ed San Francisco : Harper & Row, c1984 xv, 151 p. ; 25 cm text txt rdacontent unmediated n rdamedia volume nc rdacarrier PART I. The four stages of forgiving -- We hurt -- We hate -- We heal ourselves -- We come together -- Some nice things forgiving is not -- PART II. Forgiving people who are hard to forgive -- Forgiving the invisible person -- Forgiving people who do not care -- Forgiving ourselves -- Forgiving monsters -- Forgiving God -- PART III. How people forgive -- Slowly -- With a little understanding -- In confusion -- With anger left over -- A little at a time -- Freely, or not at all -- With a fundamental feeling -- PART IV. Why forgive? -- Forgiving makes life fairer -- Forgiving is a better risk -- Forgiving is stronger -- Forgiving fits faulty people Explains and guides the reader step by step through the four stages of forgiveness: hurting, hating, healing, and reconciliation ; provides solid help for freeing ourselves from the burden of hurts we don't deserve and for achieving healhier relationships and peace of mind Forgiveness Online version: Smedes, Lewis B. Forgive and forget. 1st ed. San Francisco : Harper & Row, c1984 (OCoLC)609267689 ddc BK 0 0 ddc 0 0 NFIC HMC HMC GEN 2018-08-20 0 234.5 S637F 001006 2018-08-20 00:00:00 2018-08-20 BK