TY - BOOK AU - Townsend,John Sims TI - Hiding from love: how to change the withdrawal patterns that isolate and imprison you SN - 0891096213 AV - BV4597.52 .T686 1991 U1 - 248.4 20 PY - 1991/// CY - Colorado Springs, Colo. PB - NavPress KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Defense mechanisms (Psychology) KW - Avoidance (Psychology) KW - Love N1 - Includes bibliographical references; The hiding dilemma. Jenny's story ; Our two biggest problems ; "This wasn't in Plan A" ; Our need for attachment ; Our need for separateness ; Our need for resolving good and bad ; Our need for authority and adulthood -- Helpful and harmful hiding. Helpful hiding : dealing with suffering ; Helpful hiding : preparing for relationship ; Harmful hiding : six critical stages ; The cost of harmful hiding -- Hope for those in hiding. Hiding from attachment ; Hiding from separateness ; Hiding from our good and bad selves ; Hiding from authority and adulthood ; Coming out of hiding ER -