01693cam a2200313 a 4500 1301 1301 24190282 OCoLC 20180910170615.0 910328s1991 cou b 000 0 eng 91061392 0891096213 9780891096214 (OCoLC)24190282 DLC eng DLC BAKER BTCTA HNW YDXCP OCLCG OCLCO OCLCF CIRBC BV4597.52 .T686 1991 248.4 20 T747h 241.4 T748 Townsend, John Sims, 1952- Hiding from love : how to change the withdrawal patterns that isolate and imprison you / John Townsend. Colorado Springs, Colo. : NavPress, c1991. 288 p. ; 24 cm. Includes bibliographical references. The hiding dilemma. Jenny's story ; Our two biggest problems ; "This wasn't in Plan A" ; Our need for attachment ; Our need for separateness ; Our need for resolving good and bad ; Our need for authority and adulthood -- Helpful and harmful hiding. Helpful hiding : dealing with suffering ; Helpful hiding : preparing for relationship ; Harmful hiding : six critical stages ; The cost of harmful hiding -- Hope for those in hiding. Hiding from attachment ; Hiding from separateness ; Hiding from our good and bad selves ; Hiding from authority and adulthood ; Coming out of hiding. Interpersonal relations Religious aspects Christianity. Defense mechanisms (Psychology) Religious aspects Christianity. Avoidance (Psychology) Religious aspects Christianity. Love Religious aspects Christianity. ddc BK 0 0 ddc 0 0 NFIC HMC HMC GEN 2018-09-10 0 248.4 T747h 003180 2018-09-10 00:00:00 2018-09-10 BK